You are most insightful Biggszzz. Your thoughts are deep and penetrating in this respect as I see it.
To love some one means to love them as they are with out the possibility to change that person.
The minute we try to go into a situation using love as a tool to change others we have just missed the point of what love actually means.
Love does not desire to control, to poses, or to change anything about the object of our love?
Love must be selfless, without expectation, without looking ahead at results. Love is innocent like a small child, who expects nothing, but sees everything, who wants to control nothing but has all control of all things, but without knowing this.
The innocence of Love is amazing. Love desires not to change others, but desires change of self to become tuned to the frequency of innocence.
Y'shua Messiah said unless you become like unto the children, you cannot enter the kingdom of Heaven.
Those are strong words???? How are children ? innocent, not knowing right from wrong, but deciding to do the right instead.
I know people that are real hard to love? Such as myself, but I have managed to do this anyway, knowing that the results will make me more loving to others.
I have known many people that are not lovable, but that is a sign of my weakness not theirs.
Love is a heavy responsibility that most cannot achieve, and that is sad.